"Live in present." Pata nahi, "kal ho na ho".



It was 25th april 2015 around 11.45 am, I was at my hometown  kanpur with my mum and my elder daughter Tanya and I felt something is shaking up like my bed was rocking and I screamed Tanya what are you doing ,the second moment i realised that she is just three years old how can she  move or shake the bed and then I ran towards the balcony as I was on the first floor .I saw people screaming and shouting and lots of fear they were experiencing and got to know that the earthquake of 6.7 Richter scale ( which we got to know later) and then I collected myself and with all my past experiences and all the stories in my head I just rush towards the ground floor by holding my mum and Tanya,
And  nothing else was in my mind and when I reach to the ground floor I was carrying my mobile phone and I started calling Dilip and my dad and not for my surprise ,no phones were reachable at that very moment and ,I didn't know what is going to happen and I was blank for 30 to 45 minutes and those moments of stillness for the the things happening around just made me realise the "importance of the present" and  in that very moment nothing was more important than holding my Tanya and hugging my mum and there I learnt the lesson of my life of living in present and be in the moment ,pata nahi," kal Ho Na Ho", and from there my life changed when I see today I am able to relate to  the expression of live in present and I live in present and only think about the moment at the present time what's going on inside me and what's going outside me, that's how , I live in present moment and create  beautiful memories out of the present and celebrate those small-2 success in life.

#mylife #mystory #truestory #ArtiSingh #everyonehasastory #storyteller 

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  1. Umesh PanditJune 10, 2020 at 7:02 AM

    Good one

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  2. UnknownJune 10, 2020 at 7:21 AM

    Good one Arti. We unnecessarily worry about too many things. 40% of things that ppl worry that will happen-never happen. 30% of all things involve that happened in the past and we cant do anything about them. 12% of us focus on the criticism from others as they felt inferior. 10% is related to health ...which worsens by thinking and not acting upon. So it's just 8% that cud be described as "legitimate" cause of concern. So, right you are - Let's live in the moment.

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    1. Arti SinghJune 10, 2020 at 7:36 AM

      Thanks sir for the wonderful perspective about life and the detailing.

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  3. CvarshJune 10, 2020 at 7:44 AM

    Lovely Arti , what an incident to depict in your writing and remember for life . Yes indeed one should alwayz live in the present . Enjoy your life to the fullest .

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  4. UnknownJune 10, 2020 at 7:48 AM

    Very well written. You are bang on

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    1. UnknownJune 11, 2020 at 1:14 AM

      Thank you..update your name here,so that i can address you with your beautiful name.as more of my stories are coming to inspire you and many more of them

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  5. Preeti SachdevaJune 10, 2020 at 8:58 AM

    Ma'am, It is very inspiring the real life story which you have shared. This gives a clear message to the people that don’t get caught up in thinking about the past or the future—live in the now! Be present in your own life. All you have is this moment. Don’t let it slip away.

    Thank you so much for sharing.
    All the Best for your life ahead.

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    1. UnknownJune 11, 2020 at 1:16 AM

      Thanks Preeti.this means alot...
      Loved that my message in clear..that's my only intention of sharing my stories.planning to share more of it,as may be they inspire someone

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  6. UnknownJune 10, 2020 at 9:03 AM

    So beautiful put! Life is in present moment wahi hum chhod rahe hai.

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    1. UnknownJune 11, 2020 at 1:17 AM

      Agree... And from there on I started living "in the moment". And it gives me so much courage and strength

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