Remember her with Smile....








Now I got to know,,why I was Natter the song since last few days... the gut feeling..the Intuition was trying to tell. me about her..but I did not know why...
my all time favourite song and the wonderfully sung by Jagjit Singh ji...
"Chitti na koi sandesh, jaane wo kaun sa desh, jahan tum chale gaye..."

 When I came in ,I used to call her "Daadi (Grandmother)",but her family called her Ajji....

 for me see was  Daadi,as I did not remember my Dadi (Grandmother ).because she left us when I was so small..so Did not have any memories with her..

 But she gave me some memories to cherish for rest of my life. 

 Yes..but I will not cry...rather I will remember her with Smile ,as she gave me the confidence..love support,courage,moment of happiness..when I got married and come to this family (we call it as Extended Family or Sasural).

 She was being 80 years old that time...was the only person ,who understood me.. and supported me through all the thick and thin in the new family to help me get adjust with them.

 Yes ,some corner  of my heart is crying for her. but some part is happy for her too ,as she saw her family settled and saw so many Grand children and even my Kid ,Her Great Grand Children...

 so she must be happy..seeing her family..growing and flourishing in front of her.

 I always admire her ,as she was a writer also ..she was writing ,but did not publish her work..
Admire her for taking care of the entire family selflessly and happily. 

 when I got married ,she performed all rituals...and she was the energy buster of our family that time..very active,very energetic being at 80...

 I love you Daadi and always will...
and 
I miss you for not being around anymore in the human form.

 this is just a small piece of writing as a tribute to you.

 RIP Dadi /Aajji

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